jumping
the gun
during sex?

Coming Soon is the unshaming guide to 
early ejaculation and lasting longer, from certified sex therapist Michelle Fischler. 

Has a penis
is 18+
is any gender
Is any sexual orientation

No more
through it.

squeezing

This book is for anyone who:

Rarely

Sometimes

Yes, constantly

men experience early ejaculation

1 in 3

you're not alone

Do you struggle with lasting longer?

Certified Sex Therapist, podcast host and founder of GETSOME, Michelle has spent over a decade helping people have better sex, without the shame spiral. 

Now, she’s written Coming Soon: a no bullshit guide that belongs on the bedside tables of anyone who comes before they want to and for the partners and clinicians that support them. 

meet Michelle.

you're not broken.

Your body already knows what to do.

Gives you the language, tools, and shame-free framework to meet clients where they're at.

working with clients

The framework is body-based. It works regardless of who you're with.

not in a relationship

The stop-start method. The numbing sprays. If they haven't worked, it's because they're solving the wrong problem.

tried the techniques

You've carried this alone for years. 
Now it's time to put it down.

Never told anyone

Wherever you're starting from

*The effects of diaphragmatic breathing exercises on individuals with premature ejaculation: A randomized controlled trial." Journal of Sexual Medicine (2025)

Saw improvement in timing using 10 minutes of daily breath-work, new research shows*

900%

the research is clear

DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?

Learn why it happens
Understand your body's arousal cycle
Be at ease in your own skin, with choice instead of panic

You don’t need to power through. Early ejaculation isn't a flaw. It's a pattern. And patterns can change.

savour

you can learn to

the moment.

— Barry McCarthy, PhD | Professor Emeritus of Psychology, American University; Author, Rekindling Desire and Sex Made Simple

"This is a much needed modernized book for general readers and clinicians."

— Kat Kova, PhD(c) | Sex & Relationship Therapist

"Grounded, actionable, and compassionate. You're not just reading theory, you're given clear tools you can use right away. It builds real choice, confidence, and understanding over time."

— Marsha Shandur | @YesYesMarsha

"Clear, funny, compassionate, and easy to read. The advice and exercises have benefits that stretch far beyond early ejaculation. A must for anyone who wants to feel at peace in their bodies."

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