This guide is for couples navigating desire mismatch — when one person wants sex more often, or in a different way, than the other. It’s especially supportive for partners trying to understand spontaneous vs. responsive desire and build bridges toward connection.

This is a digital resource delivered as a PDF.

This guide helps clients understand desire styles, reduce shame around “low libido,” and find practical ways to communicate. With exercises like mapping exciters/inhibitors and building a “bridge to desire,” it’s ideal for individual or couples sessions. 

Feel free to recommend or work through this guide with your clients—we just ask that you purchase individual copies for each client who will be using it!