Understand the many reasons behind softness (hint: it’s not about attraction)
Discover techniques for pleasure without erection
Release shame and performance pressure
Master communication tools for navigating intimate moments
This guide is for penis owners experiencing erection unpredictability and for their partners. It’s especially supportive for those affected by stress, medications, aging, or performance anxiety, and couples wanting to maintain intimacy regardless of hardness.
This is a digital resource delivered as a PDF.
This guide provides myth-busting, reframing tools, and creative practices for soft-penis pleasure. It encourages exploration through sensory play, outercourse, and journaling prompts. Practitioners can use it to normalize erection changes, reduce shame, and expand clients’ ideas of satisfying intimacy.
Feel free to recommend or work through this guide with your clients—we just ask that you purchase individual copies for each client who will be using it!
These guides are educational resources only and do not constitute medical or therapeutic advice. While created by sex therapy professionals, they are not a substitute for professional medical care, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have concerns about your sexual health, please consult with a qualified healthcare provider. By purchasing and using these resources, you acknowledge that individual results may vary and that you are responsible for consulting appropriate healthcare professionals regarding your specific situation.