What does virginity mean in today’s world, and why does the definition still matter? Throughout history, this concept has undergone dramatic transformations. In ancient times, virginity was often viewed as a form of property, tied to women’s marriage value and family honour. During the Middle Ages, it became deeply entwined with religious purity. By the […]

We opened our anonymous Sex Therapist Hotline in 2024 and received dozens of thoughtful, vulnerable, and important questions about sex, relationships, and intimacy. Today, we’re sharing the most frequently asked and insightful questions, along with expert answers from Michelle Fischler, ASTO-certified sex therapist and founder of GETSOME! On Desire Discrepancy “What should I do if […]

In August, pint-sized pop star Sabrina Carpenter released her album Short n’ Sweet. In typical Carpenter fashion, the album has no shortage of innuendo and not-so-innuendo. One song in particular keeps getting stuck in our heads—Bed Chem. Not to be confused with “chem sex” (which is an entirely different post in itself, let us know […]

Marked by newfound freedom and independence, going off to college is an exciting transitional period in the lives of young adults. In addition to exploring new academic horizons and meeting new friends, college also introduces young adults to the complexities of relationships, sexuality, and societal pressures. For many, this is both an exhilarating and nerve-wracking […]

So, we know where babies come from and we’re ready to learn MORE.  The good news is that there is so much to explore in the world of sex, sexuality, eroticism, and pleasure. So if you’re like us and hungry to learn more, you’re in luck. Your sex education literally never has to end. The […]

In case you haven’t heard the news, our Sex Therapist Hotline is officially open for business! The hotline is a 100% anonymous form where you can ask all of the sex questions you’ve been curious about but too afraid to ask. GETSOME founder and ASTO-certified sex therapist Michelle Fischler will answer your question here on […]

Conversations and curiosities surrounding sex, sexuality, and pleasure often have a little bit of a secretive air about them. No matter how much work you’ve put into becoming sexually liberated and open minded yourself, there’s still a societal stigma surrounding sex that often keeps us from asking our questions out loud. But being curious about […]