For International Kissing Day, a grounded GETSOME look at kissing, pressure, early ejaculation, body bracing, pain, inexperience, and why pleasure is not performance.

Most therapists were never trained to work with male sexual shame at the body level. What the field gets wrong about early ejaculation, and what it costs men.

The word “premature” carries a verdict. Here’s why a certified sex therapist uses “early ejaculation” instead — and why the language shift actually helps.

ASTO-Certified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischler explains the link between shame and early ejaculation, and introduces the unshaming nervous system approach from her new book Coming Soon. Available now at comingsoonbook.ca.

Premature ejaculation affects millions of men. Sex therapist Michelle Fischler wrote Coming Soon: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer — the book that gives you a map, not just techniques. Pre-order now.

Have you ever gone completely blank during a moment that really mattered? You’re in front of a group. Or with someone you care about. You were fine one moment — and the next, you’re gone. Not physically, but mentally. Words vanish. You freeze. This is called a freeze response, and it’s a common part of […]

A playful banana image representing circumcision and foreskin health in a sex therapist’s guide.

Why Sex Education in Therapy Training Matters for Client Safety Understanding the necessity of sex education in therapy training is crucial for developing competent therapists. 1. It Challenges Personal Discomfort—Not Just Client Shame Sex education in therapy training isn’t just missing from most programs—it’s controversial when it shows up. A recent Wall Street Journal opinion […]

From loneliness to legal risks, here’s what AI could mean for sexual wellness Is everyone sick of talking about AI yet? How about A.I in sex therapy? It’s been almost two years since ChatGPT became a publicly accessible AI tool, and since then the industry has blown up. We’ve seen AI startups come and go, […]

Sexual health after the 2024 U.S. election is under threat—and if you’ve been feeling anxious about the results, you’re not alone…The near-immediate spike in search terms like “change my vote,” plus a 1,500% increase in Americans researching how to leave the U.S., points towards a population that is scared for their rights—including reproductive freedom—being stripped […]