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Why Sex Education in Therapy Training Matters for Client Safety Understanding the necessity of sex education in therapy training is crucial for developing competent therapists. 1. It Challenges Personal Discomfort—Not Just Client Shame Sex education in therapy training isn’t just missing from most programs—it’s controversial when it shows up. A recent Wall Street Journal opinion […]

Sex Education Resources, Recommendations, Shame & Sex, Uncategorized

June 9, 2025

5 Ways Sex Education Improves Therapist Training—and Protects Clients

There is this fascinating belief called “declinism” which is the general belief that society or institutions are trending downwards. Though this is in no small part due to cognitive bias having us believe that the past was perfect and the future is bleak, there is no denying that lack of community is taking its toll […]

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December 30, 2024

How to Build Community in a World That Feels Divided

How to build and foster true community by GETSOME.

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November 4, 2024

Best Sex Toys Holiday Gift Guide: 16 Top Picks for 2024

Sex toys for every price range, body, gender, and ability

In August, pint-sized pop star Sabrina Carpenter released her album Short n’ Sweet. In typical Carpenter fashion, the album has no shortage of innuendo and not-so-innuendo. One song in particular keeps getting stuck in our heads—Bed Chem. Not to be confused with “chem sex” (which is an entirely different post in itself, let us know […]

Sex Education Resources, Recommendations

October 7, 2024

How to Have Better “Bed Chem”

How to have better Bed Chem inspired by Sabrina Carpenter Short n Sweet album for GETSOME's most recent blog post

Learning about sex, sexuality, desire, and unshaming sex is a lifelong journey. Whether you’re wanting to expand your worldview, embrace your own identity, support a loved one, or finally let go of the shame you were taught to carry—unshaming sex doesn’t happen all at once. It happens through curiosity, reflection, and trusted tools that meet […]

Sex Education Resources, Erection Anxiety, Recommendations, Sex & Relationships, Shame & Sex

August 26, 2024

Unshaming Sex: 86+ Essential Resources to Reclaim Pleasure

Resources for learning about sex, sexuality, and sexual shame.

We’ve been creating the GETSOME Podcast for three whole seasons now, with a fourth on the horizon! In that time we’ve spoken with some of the most fascinating people on the internet, held space for difficult but necessary conversations, and joined forces with people who are just as passionate about minimizing sexual shame as we […]

Recommendations, Sex Education Resources

July 15, 2024

The Best of the GETSOME Podcast

GETSOME with sex therapist Michelle Fischler. Sex, shame, and self-confidence.

Smut is a type of erotic literature that intentionally devotes a lot of time to “on stage” sex scenes. And between BookTok influencers and steamy book lovers conventions, it’s safe to say that smut is having its well-earned moment in the spotlight. Today, we’ve partnered with our friends at Creampie Cafe to share 15 books […]

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June 17, 2024

Love Smut? Creampie Cafe’s 15 Steamy Book Recommendations

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