Smut is a type of erotic literature that intentionally devotes a lot of time to “on stage” sex scenes. And between BookTok influencers and steamy book lovers conventions, it’s safe to say that smut is having its well-earned moment in the spotlight. Today, we’ve partnered with our friends at Creampie Cafe to share 15 books […]

At GETSOME, we know sexuality is a journey, not a destination. That’s why we’ve gathered some of the most common sexuality questions answered by therapists and educators—so you can explore identity, change, and self-acceptance without shame. Exploring sexuality is something we celebrate every single day here at GETSOME. Pride Month is a beautiful reminder, but […]

So, we know where babies come from and we’re ready to learn MORE.  Adult sex education resources are more accessible (and more necessary) than ever—especially if you’re curious, unlearning shame, or just starting to explore pleasure more deeply. The good news is that there is so much to explore in the world of sex, sexuality, […]

It goes without saying that motherhood is a life-altering experience. Not only does your body go through significant hormonal and physical shifts, but you are also now responsible for a living human being that is entirely dependent on you for everything that they need to survive and thrive. Even mothers who have children through adoption […]

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In case you haven’t heard the news, our Sex Therapist Hotline is officially open for business! The hotline is a 100% anonymous form where you can ask all of the sex questions you’ve been curious about but too afraid to ask. GETSOME founder and ASTO-certified sex therapist Michelle Fischler will answer your question here on […]

Here at GETSOME, conversations about sex, shame, and addiction aren’t uncommon. That’s because the three factors combined can feed into one another and lead to detrimental mental and physical health issues. “Sex Addiction” is a term that gets thrown around a lot in our culture, often in reference to a person with a very high […]

Conversations and curiosities surrounding sex, sexuality, and pleasure often have a little bit of a secretive air about them. No matter how much work you’ve put into becoming sexually liberated and open minded yourself, there’s still a societal stigma surrounding sex that often keeps us from asking our questions out loud. But being curious about […]

Sometimes it feels like everyone you know who isn’t in a monogamous relationship is hooking up with people that they meet at the bar, the club, or on a dating app. In fact, every potential match on dating apps these days feels like they’re “just looking for something casual.” Many people are now focusing on […]

Unshame your story. Reclaim your confidence. Reclaiming sexual confidence starts with acknowledging where shame lives—in your body, your story, and your beliefs. This post offers a step-by-step guide to unshaming sex, reconnecting with your desire, and building a relationship with sex that feels safe, grounded, and truly yours. What Is Sexual Shame? Sexual shame is […]