In May of 2024, the dating app Bumble made headlines and ruffled feathers for a campaign targeted towards women. The billboards that cropped up in the Los Angeles area urged women to take another chance at sex and dating, with one billboard reading “You know full well a vow of celibacy is not the answer.” […]

Learning about sex, sexuality, desire, and unshaming sex is a lifelong journey. Whether you’re wanting to expand your worldview, embrace your own identity, support a loved one, or finally let go of the shame you were taught to carry—unshaming sex doesn’t happen all at once. It happens through curiosity, reflection, and trusted tools that meet […]

Marked by newfound freedom and independence, going off to college is an exciting transitional period in the lives of young adults. In addition to exploring new academic horizons and meeting new friends, college also introduces young adults to the complexities of relationships, sexuality, and societal pressures. For many, this is both an exhilarating and nerve-wracking […]

Feelings of shame during sexual interactions are more pervasive and common than you may think. If you find yourself turning inward, unable to be fully present during sex, or suffering from lingering feelings of shame and anxiety before, during, and after intimacy, you are absolutely not alone in those feelings. Sexual shame can manifest itself […]

We’ve been creating the GETSOME Podcast for three whole seasons now, with a fourth on the horizon! In that time we’ve spoken with some of the most fascinating people on the internet, held space for difficult but necessary conversations, and joined forces with people who are just as passionate about minimizing sexual shame as we […]

This summer is already proving to be a scorcher for just about everyone. Though it varies for everyone, the consensus over here at GETSOME is that when it’s too hot to step outside without looking like you jumped in a swimming pool, your desire to be touched by someone else goes down… significantly. But the […]

Smut is a type of erotic literature that intentionally devotes a lot of time to “on stage” sex scenes. And between BookTok influencers and steamy book lovers conventions, it’s safe to say that smut is having its well-earned moment in the spotlight. Today, we’ve partnered with our friends at Creampie Cafe to share 15 books […]

At GETSOME, we know sexuality is a journey, not a destination. That’s why we’ve gathered some of the most common sexuality questions answered by therapists and educators—so you can explore identity, change, and self-acceptance without shame. Exploring sexuality is something we celebrate every single day here at GETSOME. Pride Month is a beautiful reminder, but […]

So, we know where babies come from and we’re ready to learn MORE.  Adult sex education resources are more accessible (and more necessary) than ever—especially if you’re curious, unlearning shame, or just starting to explore pleasure more deeply. The good news is that there is so much to explore in the world of sex, sexuality, […]

It goes without saying that motherhood is a life-altering experience. Not only does your body go through significant hormonal and physical shifts, but you are also now responsible for a living human being that is entirely dependent on you for everything that they need to survive and thrive. Even mothers who have children through adoption […]