Feelings of shame during sexual interactions are more pervasive and common than you may think. If you find yourself turning inward, unable to be fully present during sex, or suffering from lingering feelings of shame and anxiety before, during, and after intimacy, you are absolutely not alone in those feelings. Sexual shame can manifest itself […]

We’ve been creating the GETSOME Podcast for three whole seasons now, with a fourth on the horizon! In that time we’ve spoken with some of the most fascinating people on the internet, held space for difficult but necessary conversations, and joined forces with people who are just as passionate about minimizing sexual shame as we […]

This summer is already proving to be a scorcher for just about everyone. Though it varies for everyone, the consensus over here at GETSOME is that when it’s too hot to step outside without looking like you jumped in a swimming pool, your desire to be touched by someone else goes down… significantly. But the […]

Smut is a type of erotic literature that intentionally devotes a lot of time to “on stage” sex scenes. And between BookTok influencers and steamy book lovers conventions, it’s safe to say that smut is having its well-earned moment in the spotlight. Today, we’ve partnered with our friends at Creampie Cafe to share 15 books […]

Happy Pride month! Even though we’re celebrating pride, sexuality, and self-acceptance every single day here at GETSOME, there’s no better time to sit down and reflect on human sexuality than the month of June. It’s such a complicated and nuanced topic that we can (and will) talk about forever. The conversation around personal sexuality truly […]

So, we know where babies come from and we’re ready to learn MORE.  The good news is that there is so much to explore in the world of sex, sexuality, eroticism, and pleasure. So if you’re like us and hungry to learn more, you’re in luck. Your sex education literally never has to end. The […]

It goes without saying that motherhood is a life-altering experience. Not only does your body go through significant hormonal and physical shifts, but you are also now responsible for a living human being that is entirely dependent on you for everything that they need to survive and thrive. Even mothers who have children through adoption […]

Often mislabeled as “erectile dysfunction,” erectile disappointment is a common experience for individuals with penises. Whether it’s the inability to attain or maintain an erection sufficient for penetration, this issue can be accompanied by feelings of shame, anxiety, and the pressure to perform. However, it’s essential to recognize that experiencing difficulties with erections is a […]

In case you haven’t heard the news, our Sex Therapist Hotline is officially open for business! The hotline is a 100% anonymous form where you can ask all of the sex questions you’ve been curious about but too afraid to ask. GETSOME founder and ASTO-certified sex therapist Michelle Fischler will answer your question here on […]

Here at GETSOME, conversations about sex, shame, and addiction aren’t uncommon. That’s because the three factors combined can feed into one another and lead to detrimental mental and physical health issues. “Sex Addiction” is a term that gets thrown around a lot in our culture, often in reference to a person with a very high […]