When your partner says no to sex and it hurts more than you expected, old rejection may be part of it. So may what’s happening in your relationship now. What to look at, and what you might say.

Sometimes what feels easier about solo sex is not having to worry about being seen struggling. A closer look at shame, choice and relationship boundaries.

The date is going well. You want to talk about herpes before sex, but when do you begin? Michelle Fischler and Courtney Brame try a second-date conversation.

Knowing pelvic-health care exists is one step. Feeling able to enter the room is another. You can ask what an appointment involves before agreeing to it.

Sexual shame can turn a common question about sex or the body into fear that something is wrong with you. Here is what changes when the conversation begins with curiosity, context, and enough safety to say the thing out loud.

Therapists do not need every answer about sex. But when clients bring sexual shame, early ejaculation, performance pressure, or relationship fear into the room, they need enough steadiness and language to stay present.

When sex starts carrying pressure, reassurance, resentment, or fear, couples are not only arguing about frequency. They may be asking whether sex still includes both people.

For International Kissing Day, a grounded GETSOME look at kissing, pressure, early ejaculation, body bracing, pain, inexperience, and why pleasure is not performance.

A post for the partners of guys navigating early ejaculation, and anyone who has ever cared about someone through something they could not fix for them. If you are reading this, there is a good chance someone you care about is struggling with early ejaculation. And you have probably been doing everything you can think […]

Most therapists were never trained to work with male sexual shame at the body level. What the field gets wrong about early ejaculation, and what it costs men.